Last October, we decided one weekend that we should get married. The next weekend after thinking and talking to a couple friends, I proposed. I had an elaborate plan of making her dinner and asking her. But when I walked in the front door I couldn’t wait. Right thn I asked her with a ring I had bought from a craft store and a hand-drawn picture. I even put the ring on the wrong hand because I was nervous.
Back in July we figured out when we would celebrate 500 days of dating in August. (We had once watched 500 Days of Summer together. That movie does not resemble our relationship, but I love numbers and statistics.)
Two nights ago I double checked when 500 days thinking it was yesterday, August 7th, but Jenn showed me it was the next day, the 8th.
Third- Second Proposal
Yesterday I was away at a meeting on campus when Jenn came home from work. She texted me asking for personal time and asked that I would return home later, which was no problem. Then she asked me to bring home ice cream and I knew at that moment she would ask me. (I had expected she would proposed to me sometime in August and that she might do it on 500 days, then the ice cream was the hint).
I returned home with Ben & Jerry’s to candles burning and homemade pizza in the oven. She looked beautiful as ever!
|Reading the notebook Jenn wrote me|
After dinner, she gave me a present for our 500 days! It was a little notebook with 500 things she loves about me! I stopped reading at #49 (which was that I am her best friend) because I was tearing up. She asked, “Aren’t you going to keep reading?”
“Do I need to? Or should I read the last one?”
“Well I didn’t write it in there…. Will you?”
We called her parents, then my parents, her siblings, then my siblings, our grandparents. Then we made it Facebook-official. (It isn’t official until it is on Facebook!)
Her dad had asked her when we called him if we were going out to celebrate and I thought no. But Jenn said yes! I was surprised.
I didn’t want her to tell me where, so later I gave her my phone when a friend asked me where we were celebrating. While she texted that friend back, my phone beeped with more text messages. She said, “Oh let me answer these, so you don’t know about Yankee Doodle thing.” (Yankee Doodle Tap Room is a great quiet bar in the middle of Princeton, where we often go.)
She didn’t even realize that she gave it away until I pointed it out. Haha!
|Friends made us a poster and Princeton UMC gave us cookies|
We aren’t doing engagement rings, so she had two ring pops for us to wear out!
We celebrated with over 25 friends. She had been planning with my friends for a couple weeks! I am amazed that no one told me. I saw two friends earlier that day who knew and they kept it a secret from me. Actually when I saw them, I almost told these two friends that I thought Jenn was going to propose to me that night.
It was great to celebrate with friends on a joyous occasion!